PottyTraining: Give up?

[Suzie_Homemaker]

Children here are sent to the washroom at certain times of day. I not ask. They told to all go. If they need go in between, then they go.
No pull up when toilet trained. Too confusing. They either in big underwear being toilet trained or in diapers not. No back and forward.
If someone very new to toilet training had very long journey in, then I can understand need for pull up at first but it need to come off immediately they arrive.
There too many mixed message in pull up feel like diaper, pull up in car, pull up after arrival at day care - yet 5 months into toilet training! Too confusing. It say to child that sometimes, it okay to pee/poop in underwear but other times of day, toilet is used. No consistency in approach = no consistency in result.
Once toilet training begin, I never consider it an option to give up. It takes some children longer than others but there is no stage of development where I would expect child to give up walking, talking, trying to pump their leg ans make swing go themselves, eating with spoon independant, or anything else. Why people think toilet training is okay to quit I not understand.