Too Many Choices for Toddler = Power Struggle?

[Suzie_Homemaker]

I think too many choices is a horrible habit to instill in a child. They get raised believing they have a say in everything that happens - and they don't or should not. Adults make decisions. Kids need direction. Clear, simple instruction. Kids who get options for everything end up believing they are parent's equal and they are not.

Meals options is my pet annoyance. Kids asked which of three cereals they want. They parent not understand why kid is fussy eater refusing food until they get what they want for supper. Just pour the cereal into a bowl and add milk. Done. No options.

When my kids were teenagers, we used to say that this country might be a democracy but this house is under a dictatorship. Our house, our rules and if not like it, get job and move out. The door's right there.