I would without a doubt help them oUT but It's not like they are hurting, trust me. It's just stupidness.[/QUOTE]


You can't fix stupidness!!

You'll need to either make it firm and clear the child doesn't stay without the supplies. Or you'll have to accept that you need to scramble on your end to gather supplies for the child to use.

I know you can't make the child have an accident (and I assume it is rare she has one) but can you make her filthy or soaked or something to have to call and have him bring a change of clothes? Maybe if he gets in the pattern of having calls to disrupt his day, he'll make the effort to bring the supplies, for his sake (not yours, of course).