I'm not sure this is the right place to be posting, I just really need some help! lol

[Lee-Bee]

I have had her for 2 years. This has been a problem since she was in diapers. I would have to tape the tabs on her diaper down so she couldn't take it off at naptime, on many occasions i would check on her and she would be covered in poop.
I helped potty train her....i have helped potty train many kids, including my son, who was trained in 2 days. Understanding every child is different, but this is out of control. They just stopped packing pull ups. I remind and remind them and they would forget and i suppose i just gave up? It feels pretty defeating sometimes. There have been nights where i just cry because i feel like I'm failing this child.
i know i sound stupid. I know i am being taken advantage of. But for some reason i keep thinking i can fix the problem.

I know the vast majority of us enter the field of childcare to give our all to the children but ultimately we NEED to put ourselves first, then our families THEN our daycare families. If we put the daycare families first then we start to wear down and no one benefits.

Sometime the best fix for this time of problem, what may be best for that child long run is to terminate. It may be a bit of a reality check for that family who will have to kick it into high gear, find a new daycare and put their own effort into training the child. Long term...this benefits the child more than you bearing the burden of trying to pick up the pieces behind a family that is being disrespectful.

Set your emotions aside and figure out what is best for YOU here...and that will end up being what is best for all your daycare families, including this child.