I have thought the exact same thing! If she absolutely does not do it at home, the why are they still sending her here? I wouldnt. Lol! I might also add, that i treat her and her family very, very well. I also have another little one whos parents were terified to send him to me because of his behavioral issues.....i have not once seen him act out. He is a dear and a fabulous child to work with so, it makes me feel like i kind of know what I'm doing. As for the pee family, i have suggested they take her to the doctor to make sure it isnt a mwdical issue.....which, really, should have happened in general.