I'm not sure this is the right place to be posting, I just really need some help! lol

[Lee-Bee]

The Pee family (heehee).

I don't think I can be of help here...hopefully some others have advice from working with older, children that are acting out. I don't know that I would be keeping a child in care if they were picking holes in my walls/carpets/counters, flooding my house and pushing...along with peeing all over at the age of 4 UNLESS the parents were completely on board with helping to solve the issues at hand. Which these parents are NOT if they are laughing it off.

It is sad, but we are only one person and we have a huge job before us. If the parents are not working as a team to solve big issues like this then it can just mean you have to devote way too much of your time and energy to solving it all on your own...while often times the parents are just undoing your hard work after hours.

[AmandaKDT]

My 3 almost 4 year old niece AND my friend's daughter who is the same age both took FOREVER to potty train. It was getting very frustrating and it didn't seem to matter what they did there were constant accidents for months and months. They both have strong willed personalities, perhaps that is a factor? My niece had an issue with holding in her poop and that caused some real set backs too. But for both of them they just recently were finally fully potty trained, all that they did was keep consistently taking them to the potty and eventually it just clicked.

Sorry I don't have much advice to offer, except that it took time and endless patience. But if the girl is pooping herself she would definitely be in a pull up in my house. What an awful mess to clean up!