How do you deal with the hurt?

[5 Little Monkeys]

I BAWLED the first time a few of the kids left lol. They were with me for a long period and I was attached to the child and to the families. Over time, it has gotten easier to say goodbye (I give a heartfelt card which helps as I can express my feelings to them better through writing than in person.) I now remind myself that these kids WILL leave and that is just life. I've also had a few that I was happy to see go so that definitely takes the sting out too LOL

Most of my families keep in touch which is also nice. Even the odd email/text or pic of their child is appreciated. It does eventually fade away though as everyone has lives and life goes on.

Good luck...it does get easier with experience