To give you more information we had an interview in May when we spoke about rates and hours etc... the interview went great and shortly after they gave me the response that they wanted me to provide care for their children. I then emailed him a document stating a breakdown of my rates, how they are applied and certain expectations I had of them as customers regarding payment, notice of schedule changes, what to provide their children with etc... The father completely disregarded the section stating the prices as he thought that we had agreed to something else verbally and the rates on the document didn't apply to him. friday when payment was due there was a confusion regarding the rates and pretty much accused me of changing the numbers saying we verbally agreed to one thing during the original interview and now I changed them. I did not do that and he would know because if he had read the document i emailed him and thought about it he would know. Also in the document I stated if there were any questions or concerns to contact me. He never did so I assumed everything was ok.

I told him he must have misunderstood me at the original interview and what was written in the document was what I had verbally presented to him and he agreed. He accepted what I said but later on sent me an email requesting all that information. I did not provide him with my SIN and will not, for one I can't find my card and second I do not feel comfortable, if it is needed when it is time for taxes I will provide but aside from that I don't see how that information is relevant. The only reason he stated in the email was that he said as he plans to have his children in my care for years this information would be helpful to him, how I do not know.

The only thing I can think of is that they are not trusting me and feel as if I am cheating them and want to have some information about me in case if I ever did something wrong they would have some way to track me.

I am currently quite disappointed at the whole thing and now feel the relationship is a little sour. I am not particularly happy with the tone he spoke to me in and the accusation he hinted at but at the same time am trying to be understanding. What would you do at this point?