So I have an interview with another family on Thursday morning. I don't normally do interviews during daycare hours but I need to make a decision before I leave for vacation on Friday.

The first family emailed me on Sunday and said they are waiting to find out if they got a spot at his old daycare centre (they left there to come to me which adds to the guilt) and won't know until Aug 4th. So it is clear they will leave the minute they get a spot there and they have been transparent about this. Well they maybe won't leave. I think they are looking for September so he doesn't start with me or Feb when I am done. Problem is, if this other family wants the spot, what do I do? I would feel like an ass either way. I know, look out for myself first but I am technically the one screwing over this first family (in their eyes) as they planned on being with me until kindergarten. I don't think the situation is as cut and dry as I'd like it to be. I also don't want the first family to leave me in the dust in 2 mos whereas the 2nd family knows I am pregnant and will look for something for Feb. I believe they will as their current provider sold her house and is closing up shop. They have stayed with her until the end.