I would agree with the rest. I wouldn't provide the care unless I get paid in advance. I'm the provider and you do trust me and let me take care of your child and I think you should trust me with your money too. Especially, if we already know each other and I'm providing the care for the past 8 months. It's like receiving any other service. They won't give you anything unless you pay for it. Hope it helps and good luck with the talk.