I'm so very sorry. I have been through this and it was agonizing for me. 3 yrs ago, and I still think about it a lot wondering who that baby would be. (((hugs))) It does hurt, and you bleed more than you think you will but the physical pain passes quickly. I took a week off when I found out I was losing mine, as I didn't know what to expect and I was emotionally a wreck- I let it pass naturally. Do whatever you need to do and don't feel an inch of guilt about it!! xoxoxo