Arrgghh I know I can be a push over and I really need to work on that. I am going to try again tonight and see what happens. Everyone makes it seem so simple and it is but I don't know why it seems so hard in person!
She knocked bc I always lock the door once someone leaves and she came back after ten minutes. I opened the door and she said her kids needs to be changed and offered to do it.
She is in a pretty good habit of using my washroom and one time I told her she can't use it bc I had a kid in the potty as I was potty training. She was like "Oh I'll wait". Like what the hell the do I say.
She is good when I have other kids bc I started walking away but when I am the last one I don't know what say bc I have to go isn't working