Loosing My Patience Please Help Me

[Lee-Bee]

That's why I asked. I almost never expect things to change at home...but if it was only happening at daycare then it might be solvable but if it is being "rewarded" at home then it is really going to be hard to end it at daycare because she is being taught it gets her what she wants (at least at home).

If I were in your position I would likely give a letter home noting that while this behavior can be normal, it has gone on too long and too frequently which generally implies it is being rewarded...making it near impossible to end without everyone cracking down. Give them a time frame. If she continues termination will take place. Tell them after EACH throw up the parents will be called for immediate pick up in that time frame. So, give 2 weeks for the behavior to have stopped, during that 2weeks they will come for pick up the first throw up each day. Give them the expectations for the behavior to be deemed corrected (no throw up for 3 days straight (or whatever). If you see progress in that time frame make a new probation time with your expectations -eg only one throw up in 2 weeks and immediate pick up after that throw up. This puts the onus on them to crack down or they get terminated. But gives you an easy out if they chose not to crack down. Good luck!

[Kellybelly83]

Have you discussed the issue with the parents before? I'm sorry if you already said you did I may have missed it lol.

If you have, and they don't seem to care- I'd consider telling them this is their 2 weeks notice or whatever is in your contract. Or like lee bee said, have them pick up each time. It's highly unsanitary to have her vomiting all over you and your home. That's something they encouraged, they can deal with it. I'm not sure how you lasted this long!