Loosing My Patience Please Help Me

[TinyTwigs]

I sent her home today because we were making progress all week and she threw up right after I changed her. She was trying to fall asleep and I said no you have to wait until nap and she started crying and after I changed her threw up all over herself and my floor. She's a little sneaky fox because if she is laying down we won't do it and she will always hunch over about half a mile bc she doesn't want to get in on her clothes. She is a manipulative child and her parents know this very well. Now I fear for my sanity on Monday bc I sent her home and when she saw her dad she was bouncing in her stroller so I think I just rewarded her behaviour

[Lee-Bee]

I sent her home today because we were making progress all week and she threw up right after I changed her. She was trying to fall asleep and I said no you have to wait until nap and she started crying and after I changed her threw up all over herself and my floor. She's a little sneaky fox because if she is laying down we won't do it and she will always hunch over about half a mile bc she doesn't want to get in on her clothes. She is a manipulative child and her parents know this very well. Now I fear for my sanity on Monday bc I sent her home and when she saw her dad she was bouncing in her stroller so I think I just rewarded her behaviour

No worries...yes you rewarded her behavior but in doing so you punished the parents. It will get old really fast for the parents.

I've seen kids in JK do this. Daily. Don't like the activity, bored with sitting "I'll throw up and go home" they need to end this now. Keep sending her home. It will put enough pressure on the parents to either change her behavior or change daycares...either way you win!