Need some advice. I have four daycare children right now. Two of which have a sibling that want to come to me as well. Obviously I have to pick a family as I can't have six kids, only five. One sibling starts this nov and another one next July. After waying options I have picked the July baby to stay. They are just a way better family to deal with. The other one is ok but we have had our issues and still they can be a pain sometimes. Here's my problem.....I can let the nov sibling start this nov as I only have four kids. But come next July when July sibling starts nov baby and big sister will have to leave. What do I tell them? What reason do I say? I don't want to say I prefer this family over yours!! Also I don't want to tell her now as she will probably leave and I can't fill the spot now to just next July so I will be telling her next June and giving her a mth. Obviously she is going to figure out that I knew all along that July baby would be coming and someone had to leave....she'll b mad! I'm not trying to hurt anyone, I just want to do what fits right with my daycare group and do whats right with my own family.