Attachment Parentinng

[Crayola kiddies]

I do not take AP kids ever ..... Parents who use the AP style of parenting and then plan on putting the child in daycare are very selfish .... AP is not conducive to group care and there is no way you can care for multiple children this way not to mention the wear and tear on your body ....It would not fly hear cause I'm a CIO girl
Also my rule is if you come back you must take your child with you because kids learn that when mom or dad comes its time to go home and if the parent cones to nurse and leave then that's not fair to the child .... Yes I understand that the child will be asleep but it won't always be that way and then you have an upset child to deal with .... Plus that does not help the child to learn to self soothe.
Did you not know this family ap'ed or was it a immediate placement and there was no time to make adjustments in order to prepare the child for group care ?