Personal Life Is Just Sad

[Dreamalittledream]

The previous replies are way too tame. Are you in an abusive relationship - a resounding, screaming YES!!!!!!!
She checks parental rating on movies before allowing you to watch, she doesn't LET you change the boys, she doesn't let you go to the beach, she abuses you verbally????? This is not "odd'! This is not a matter of "knowing your personal limits"! It is not your fault nor it due to your past - people like that seek out partners they can shame, control and abuse.
If you were my daughter I'd back a moving truck up to your house and get you the hell out of there.

You have stated your opinion and that is fine; it's what this forum is about! You've given some great advice; I'm sure the same advice that is on a lot of reader's minds. But to quote my post and put down what I have given as my opinion....NOT COOL.

[ottawamommy]

Let's not fight everyone's opinion matters and helps a lot

[crayolamom]

You have stated your opinion and that is fine; it's what this forum is about! You've given some great advice; I'm sure the same advice that is on a lot of reader's minds. But to quote my post and put down what I have given as my opinion....NOT COOL.

Stop while we are ahead. I think by not allowing to change the boys and only girl is to prevent her from seeing male parts due to partners getting upset from past job in the past and boyfriends upsetting her. I think this is logic of that person. It might come off to some people since it is same sex relationship it may not be as serious as heterosexual one but that not true

[Discoveries]

I believe that all reading this would 100% agree it is an abusive relationship. I think outside professional support and help is needed, before just bolting. I think a support system needs to be in place. If her partner acts this way now, I fear how she may possible act should leaving be mentioned. Her partner could accuse her of acting inappropriately with the daycare children, or attempt a character bash preventing poster from being able to secure future clients. If things have got physical before, things could escalate during separating. I'm concerned and just want her to have some more resources/support/guidance etc.