Two part rant :)

[Suzie_Homemaker]

In personal life, I good listener. In professional life, I learn not ask client what wrong. Might sound mean but there no other outcome than either they breakdown and tell you or they shrug off and not want input from outside.

Maybe it not kind but unless their issue impact me or my business, I not really interested in why they upset and feel if they want me know, they will tell me. I really not want open door for them thinking I their friend, counsellor, or anything else. It too draining. I tend not connect with emotionally needy people as rule so when associate having issue, I prefer to stay out of situation.

It not that I lack compassion for other people situation but I just not willing to take on upset and heartache of others outside immediate circle of friend and family.