Are we related?? This honestly sounds exactly like my in-laws. Though while my MIL is ill, we can't really blame that on the behavior of my FIL and SIL, since they've always been hard to deal with. However, it certainly makes things worse. I am embarrassed when I'm with them around other people and try to avoid it as much as I can. My husband is used to it, but I feel so bad for him because he puts up with a lot.

So yes, my in-laws drive me crazy! LOL.