I'm sorry to hear others are in same boat but glad I'm not alone!!

My husband always says how much he prefers being around my family but they are about 2.5 hours from us and his are 4 blocks away so we see them more often! His sister is just 2 blocks away....ugh, all too close for my liking!! Lol

I would love if just us 2 went away for Christmas but than we'd miss out on my family get together and we couldn't just go to one and not the other. Both sides would probably think we're being selfish and would be hurt as well. If his family keeps this behaviour up though, I might reconsider!!!

I actually think dementia is setting in for his mom but his dad is just a crank pot and has no excuse for his behaviour!! His parents should have divorced years ago but never did. His dad has led a pretty sweet life for the past 15-ish years and did and went as he wanted. Now that he has to stay home and tend to his wife (she needs 24/7 care but they also have home care) he is depressed I think.

They seriously drive me crazy!! Haha