I think it's normal to ask too. Totally up to you on how you want to handle it. I did it more in the beginning when I had new first time moms. I allowed them an hour to two and it always went relatively fine. It depends on the child, but bluerose is right, some kids won't give mom the true picture. I haven't had anyone ask in so long so I'm not sure what I'd do now. It doesn't bother me a whole lot and the crew I have now, I know it wouldn't bother them either.
I always tell new parents that in the beginning I'll send lots of pics and videos and than it decreases as time goes on. I totally understand the uncomfortableness/uneasiness that would come with leaving your child in the hands of a stranger essentially. Until trust is formed, I think it's normal parent behaviourA few months down the road I expect them to "back off" a bit as they now know and trust me. Good luck!

































A few months down the road I expect them to "back off" a bit as they now know and trust me. Good luck!
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