What do u guys do?

[5 Little Monkeys]

For the amount of times it happens, (rarely), I allow them to come after their morning appt. I even allow them to drop off at 745, pick up at 10 and drop off at 11 for example. Anything in the afternoon though is just end of day for them.

I've had a mom let her daughter sleep in a few days (mom works shifts so is sometimes home during day) and a few times she's texted and said she would just keep her so she didn't mess up my day....I appreciated it and didn't take it as anything other than mom being considerate.

In your case, it's a bit different since you asked. I don't think what you asked is unreasonable and if mom wants to view it that way, that's on her. She has the option to bring him to you but is deciding not too. I think your response is perfect.