Videotape to prove point?

[Lee-Bee]

Video taping could come off a bit strange )confrontational even) to the parent. But if the child is in that much distress I would be on the phone during the attack with the parent listening to what I am hearing. I would note my concern and be requesting pick up by parent or by ambulance. I think the parent would understand my concern if they were getting a call in the midst of the attack. I think it is valid to make it known at that time that you are caring for 4 other young children and cannot ignore them to provide constant monitoring to ensure the child is breathing.

Obviously don't sound over dramatic and out of control but the parents do need to realize the concern and that it is different in group care.

If the child does return and has another attack would running the hot shower and keeping him in the bathroom loosen the breathing? Until pick up. Strap him in a high chair in the bathroom? I know cool, moist air helps not sure if hot steamy air does. Might be worth researching to know should the situation arise where he is really struggling.

It really must be stressful for the family to not have back up care and to have a child that needs so much time off work. Even the best of parents can be under enough stress and pressure to put the blinders on and send the child to care. BUT, it is not acceptable in this situation.