You haven't seen ANYTHING....it's usually on the wall....I've had parents split while kiddies are in my care...number one ...dead giveaway is that there is usually a HUGE COMMUNICATION problem between the parents ...ie, when I ask a parent about something...they will say "Oh, she (he) didn't tell me about that"...I'm like "WHAT"...DO YOU PEOPLE EVEN TALK...I asked her (him) to speak to you about that 3 days ago and again when they came last night for pick-up ". I am usually 100% right...they are splitting up....I gave a mother proper heck for not telling me...This little guy I had for a couple of years was acting out all the time...couldn't put my finger on it...unbelieveable what I found out he was witnessing at home between the parents....maybe he just needed that extra hug or little bit more attention at my home to make his day happier....so in closing....DAMN RIGHT I WOULD ASK....