Please please help!!!!

[Suzie_Homemaker]

I am the opposite and insist on real underwear from day one. However, your policy is different and we do what we each prefer.

The bigger issue is that this parent think your policy negotiable when it not.

I would send message and state that for hygiene reasons, you have the policy that you do. And in your home, where you are having clean accidents with other children present, you not willing have constant urine on floor and furniture. I would let her know that she more than welcome to keep child at home and toilet train herself using own preferred method, but in your house, you have reason for doing it way you do, and it includes consideration for all children present. Ask her what dates she will be training and keeping child home and remind fees due regardless of attendance. Ask how long she think it will take her to complete training and when you expect child back into daycare.