Also as an aside, your username is the one that posted on here the exact scenario described in the Facebook thread, on October 28, 2015. You seem to have more inside info than what was posted on the Facebook thread (your original post indicates a friend told you to check out the thread and amazingly you happened to be in a babywearing group and yet I gather from your posts you don’t really follow AP methods which is a bit odd in itself). Things are curiouser and curiouser.