Daycare Provider Was Bashed By Parents Online For Terminating AP Child

[Lee-Bee]

Never have I posted on daycare bear about having issues with AP parents involving things that were stated in the thread nor on this website. I have in fact had issue with AP family one time and have decided after that experience that type of parenting style does not work for my daycare setting and i is not welcome, lastly I am AP which is why I wanted to stay at home with my children. The most recent issue I had with same ex client is getting harassed for deposit since end of September which escalated to small claims . I am sure I am not the only one who has had issue with AP.

The post history shows it was not crayolamom that created the post. She, along with many of us, had numerous posts on the many pages of posts within that thread but it was created by another member.

[MommaL]

The post history shows it was not crayolamom that created the post. She, along with many of us, had numerous posts on the many pages of posts within that thread but it was created by another member.

Lee-Bee, it was a completely different thread that Mama2boys was referring to that was started by crayolamom. I wouldn't have thought much of it, except there were some similarities (both cases happened in October, involved AP parents and both providers have a 3-week transition policy in their contracts). And I still wouldn't have questioned it if Mama2boys didn't mention that the poster seems to have more details about this case than what's written on the facebook page (which I cannot verify since I haven't seen the facebook page). Plus, there was another thread on this forum back in September started by crayolamom (which sadly got a bit nasty) and some members questioned on that thread whether crayolamom and the other member that we are thinking of were the same person. So it was for these reasons that I started questioning it. But I will happily admit if I'm wrong and apologize if I am.

[Lee-Bee]

Lee-Bee, it was a completely different thread that Mama2boys was referring to that was started by crayolamom. I wouldn't have thought much of it, except there were some similarities (both cases happened in October, involved AP parents and both providers have a 3-week transition policy in their contracts). And I still wouldn't have questioned it if Mama2boys didn't mention that the poster seems to have more details about this case than what's written on the facebook page (which I cannot verify since I haven't seen the facebook page). Plus, there was another thread on this forum back in September started by crayolamom (which sadly got a bit nasty) and some members questioned on that thread whether crayolamom and the other member that we are thinking of were the same person. So it was for these reasons that I started questioning it. But I will happily admit if I'm wrong and apologize if I am.

Ok...I don't know for sure but this post sounded very familiar to what was posted on here in October by a caregiver. It sounded a lot like what was being mentioned on this post. When I checked back to clarify I noted it was not crayolamom that had started it.

Who is involved in what, I have no clue. People get so weird on online forums and things can get messy fast. What ever is going on, hopefully the party being wronged can keep their head up and those that are acting poorly can move on without doing any further harm.

Parents can parent in weird ways. It can make an already hard job even harder on us caregivers...so parents do need to realize that sometimes their parenting style will results in being terminated...it is for the benefit of all involved. Parents just need to accept it and find more suitable care. They really do not benefit from trying to force others to change their ways to accommodate.