Quote Originally Posted by babydom View Post
It is done! Got two new kids signed on and called mom and gave her notice on sat. She didn't take it well. Cried and hung up on me. Understandable. This morning at drop off was normal, nothing said. However I will have to text her today during nap as I only gave notice to the crying bother. Sister can stay. But I'll have to text her and ask if shell pull sister out as well.....which I expect!
I just caution you to word this question carefully.

Word it in a manner that tells her you need to know now if the daughter will leave care as well in order for her to be eligible to use her deposit for final weeks of care (she needs to give enough notice).

If she didn't take the notice well and she knows you need the daughters spot for a new family she may opt to leave daughter a little longer just to complicate things. Hopefully she doesn't but there are some families out there that would. So make this about helping her ensure she provides enough notice to make use of her deposit and not about you getting confirmation you can fill that spot.