Quote Originally Posted by Van View Post
I bet it is nice to have money again and not be a poor student
Good Luck with the Exams
......and the commute
Honestly Van, the money has been the biggest issue. Everything comes at a price so the commute time, the studying etc are just par for the course. It's when I lose 8 roof tiles over the weekend and can't afford to get them repaired, my daughter needs to get a tutor, my son has been offered admission to a gifted summer camp at Yale or Princeton, etc, etc Some things we need, some things we don't and we have really managed well considering, but we can't manage like this long term. In September I'll be taking 3 classes, and an additional 2 over summer to stay on a full time schedule and progress the same, maybe all online or maybe 1 as a visiting student in the evening at a university campus close by to stay somewhat accountable and socially connected. My major is a very rare specialty only offered at three universities in the province all about 60km away so it's not a case of simply transferring. When it's time to do my masters, both my kids will have graduated high school so perhaps then we will downsize so that living on one wage is more manageable and perhaps even move closer to campus...who knows.

For now I have structured my daycare day a little differently to be able to offer a fruitful and exciting day for the children without the need to spend much time outside of daycare hours prepping. I will need the majority of the weeks naptimes to study with evenings and weekends as back up for "those days". I obviously need family time too. I'm also being much pickier with daycare families, although over two years are rare enquiries so I likely won't have the luxury of pickiness in those cases. I wouldn't actually be surprised if I don't actually fill those spots until the now 1 year olds turn 2 in a year and I can fill with infants again. That's fine though...

Thanks for entertaining my offloading