Sorry about your situation Spixie

I have a little guy who is almost 20 mths old. He just recently started doing the same thing at drop off. He throws little fits and whines as soon as he sees me. The dad always says "oh, what's wrong? you were just fine and have been fine all morning" which then makes me feel like crud.

I took it personally at first but now I honestly think it's just dcb seeing what he can get away with with mom and dad. As soon as the door closes he is fine. He has started throwing a fit when mom comes to pick him up too. She can barely hold him and he's squirming and crying and screaming.

Could your kids' crying be along the same lines ?? ...they are realizing that maybe they get away with more with mom and dad so they're testing the waters?

Whatever it is I hope it gets sorted out soon for you. I just keep thinking that if the parents were honestly concerned and thought there was something going on, they would either try to discuss it with me or stop bringing their kid here.