I did tell mom I would go if she asks for help. She has been here 8 months and has never asked for help. Mom's texts seemed as if she was annoyed and if I recall I am pretty sure we went through this with her older sibling that I had a few years ago. Mom never said anything about it this morning at drop off so maybe I was reading into it more than I should have. I am glad to know I do the same as everyone.