My husband works evenings so is around a lot. He helps out when I ask (sometimes grumbling lol) but he knows I enjoy my job so he puts up with it. We don't have kids of our own so I know some days it is a lot for him. He is off school holidays and summers and by the end of summer, I am kicking him out! haha. He does enjoy it though and will often come up with ideas for outings or suggestions. He knows that I can handle my business and that I have final say over anything though. I appreciate having him support me. He is constantly telling others how proud of me he is and that he is really impressed with the way I do things and how I handle dealing with all the kids and families.

It definitely has caused fights though!! I too have had to tell him that unless I bring it up, I don't really want to spend my naptime break discussing daycare. It's my time to decompress and get ready for the afternoon. He understands this (now) You will find what works best for you guys. Good luck!