There is nothing more upsetting than being blindsided by a family where you think everything is going great! I have had it happen a few times. I really can't say which way would be best. My guess is that because you are butting heads that she might see it coming and possibly be relieved if you go. It's hard to say but definitely telling your child to lie is not the best way. Just make sure and give your proper notice, even a nice card/gift when you leave, keep things on a positive note. Good luck!

































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