This parent is driving me crazy! Am I wrong here??

[mickyc]

I nap kids from 12:30-3. All kids must nap until they are 4. Once they are 4 I will let the child up after an hour provided I don't need to wake them. If they are still sleeping then I leave them until they wake. They then can come and watch cartoons quietly. All 4 year olds who start kindergarten in sept quit naps for July/August before school starts. Parents know nap time is for coloring/books/tv but only if their child is 4 and starting school.

In your situation the child needs to nap 2 hours. No exceptions. A lot of times bedtime issues have nothing to do with nap.