I did have one family that was amazing. Mom worked 10min away and the child was literally here 8hrs 20min. She zipped over as fast as she could to get him at the end of the day (3:40pm) every day. They truly valued their child and enjoyed their time with him. While this obviously isn't something all families can manage, I do believe that as these children age they do know, they see if mom and dad are doing what they can to spend more time with them.