As someone in this business long time, this not unusual in certain personality types but not usual either. It come from being type of personality who need control and who not overly empathic of others and belief their view more important than others. It normally just a phase unless parent enables it and then I have seen it morph into those kids who look down on others and wonder why they have no friends.

Been long time since I've had one of those children but little trick I can pass on.. You can buy tree faces in Dollar Store with eyes and nose and mouth. They only have in summer time. We had old tree stump and my husband use this kit to make a "Tattle Tree". This is place where children can go to tell tales on their friend who not doing any harm, or hurting people but who just not doing things way others want. It stops me listening endless tattling all day from last child like this but also taught child to assess if any harm being done - if there is, they come tell Miss Suzie. If they just telling tales, they can complain to tree. It work really well.