Love this thread!!!!

I am on all the time I can't help it. Even before I was a DCP I never had any tolerance for poor behavior and lackadaisical parenting.

So I avoid situations where I might potentially have to look after any children outside of daycare hours.

It sounds horrible but I am starting to have a harder time keep my tongue in check when I see children misbehaving. I don't get overly involved I will make a point of saying to the child "I can see what you are doing and that isn't nice/polite/friendly/appropriate." That will generally stop them in their tracks.