Thank you everyone for your input. I do appreciate it. After a few days of my dcg wearing panties I put her back in pull-ups. She doesn't ask for the potty at all. I do put her on the potty about every 45 minutes as I find 20 minutes just a little too much. When she goes in the potty she gets a sticker for a chart. She has had several accidents which is understandable but she just tells me she has peed. As I do have carpet it is now becoming a sanitary issue for me. I will be speaking to mom at pick up time to tell her we can try panties again when dcg can tell me she has to go. Personally I don't think she is ready yet. The parents have been trying for the past six months to potty train. I think they should continue with underwear at home (pull-ups at nap time as she goes in her sleep). As soon as she can ask to go she can wear panties here.