My 2 daycare boy's mom has decided that since she was traumatized when she found out the truth about santa that they will not "do the whole santa thing" with their kids. They will still have a tree and presents but no santa.

I let her know that I can keep our activities related to christmas and not santa, but that my daughter is 3.5 and already talking about santa and I can't control that.

I also made the mental note that come next year I will no longer be able to care for this family's children because they will then be old enough to ruin it for everyone else. Love the kids and the family is great to work with...but this is a deal breaker!