I have a family member who has an3 yr old boy and when visiting over Christmas at my house the child played with all the daycare toys (no prob) but the Dad said they would like to borrow some of them (he didn't really ask), namely the big wooden train set (says his child just has figure 8 track) and magnetic tiles. He said he'd come and get them when my DC is closed for holidays. I feel a bit put off by the whole thing as he didn't really ask, and they are an extremely rich and young family (his parents paid off their million dollar house soon after purchase.) I feel like if they can afford to buy their own stuff, they should. My toys get enough wear and tear as it is. Am I the one being stingy? How do I tell them without offending, or should I just chill? Thanks.