Hi, it also depends on her classroon ruling, in a meeting with some school jk sk Ece's we briefly touch this situation (naps), most children are encouraged to at least lie down and unwind so they can continue their afternoon. Also, it is encouraged to nap because the educators also need their lunch break time, when children lie down or nap it is required less supervision and the educators can take turns while taking their break time, if she is going to a after school program daycare administrated by a centre pretty much that is also the norm.

I was also surprised to learn that when most children are done with their nap time (around 3 to 4 years old); some schools put them back to nap schedules. I have heard some parents complaint about that, children taking long time to go sleep at night.

Your daughter might not be ready to nap with you at your house but in school there is a lot peer pressure and many rules to follow. I would suggest you to keep a close communication with her teachers. If she doesn't nap in the school then most likely she will go bed really earlier, some parents in that case decide to pick up their child early from school.

The wake up time should be worked transitioning slowly as suggested in the message above.