I had a 4 1/2yr old child last year that was so spoiled! The parents carried him into the house like a baby and took off his coat and shoes for him. This child was not used to the word no and he didn't like it one bit! He would bang and kick my walls, scream, spit at me, etc when I told him no. The parents enrolled him in kindergarten, but after one month the teacher said he was not ready for kindergarten ( no kidding! He didn't listen to any adults of follow rules) He pushed, hit, took toys away from even the big kids. I ran into his old dayhome at the park and they told me they had brought in an expert to test and examine him, concerned that he had a developmental problem. NOPE! Turns out he was just spoiled rotten. Luckily for me the mom decided to enroll him into a full time preschool instead of using my daycare and I was saved from having to terminate the family.