Quote Originally Posted by Van View Post
I take the toy away when I see the child running the toy into the other child and give him a warning that you will take the toy off him and sit him out the next time he does that and then sit him out for 3 mins as he is 3 , and he will soon learn.
Yes, that's what I've been doing, I thought he would show some improvements by now, but he seems to think that I'm being mean/ doesn't understand it's a consequence of his behavior. I get the impression he's allowed to take toys from his brother and play rough at home. I do try tell the mom what we're working on, but she is generally rushing off or just says "oh thanks, I know he's difficult"... would you ever sit a parent down and say this is what you need to do at home? it feels like overstepping...
Also, when you take a toy away do you put it out of reach or do you let the other kids play with it?