When is a behavior too much?

[Peacefulbird]

Hi. I currently have 6 boys in my care. And it is busy. Use the nipising check list? This will tell you how is his developement going in general.I find that in general boys have more energy and need to be challenged constantly. It has been three months now that I took away all toys (and we did not have many); my setting has most hands on activities, the chaotic area was the toys area so, no it is gone. We go earlier for a walk or the park, I usually wait for them ready outside and when we comeback is just paceful, everyone gets to do something different (their choise), and we do the group activities during circle time. I developed activities that targets each one abilities and skills some more challenging than others. I also have included ocupational therapy activities. Parents cannot believe how peaceful is in here. And obviously, I devote all my attention to them (especially for the ones that need it). There is always an instigator so, that one gets to be my helper the whole day. I have many little projects for him to be busy.
Search, read and try the following; ocupational activities, loose parts, preschool hands on activities. Search in pinterest. You will definitely see a big change.

Also another fact to consider is his diet, sometimes too much processed sugars (juices, some cereals, energy bars, even granola bars, etc); can definitely cause high levels of energy making it hard for them to develop self-regulations skills. Ask his parents what he had for breakfast and guide them if needed.

And another reason could be that he feels neglected (you've mentioned he has a 1y old brother); or he might have hearing difficulties, i have seen some children not liking hugs or any physical contac but unless it is extreme (shown in behaviour) then it would show a red flag. Children in general like their own space. Once you get their trust and when they feel they're safe, in a positive environment they usually get close and give and accept hugs.

There are some workshops for "no time outs" options there are very informative with positive outcomes.

Also keep up with a journal to help with information of the little boys development and behaviours.

I hope it helps.