Hi all, I am a 60-year-old who looks after 4 young children. I try to appear young and energetic, but I have to have angioplasty on Thursday due to newly diagnosed heart disease, which hopefully will not affect my ability to work. I am not telling the parents that I am going to be having this procedure, as I am able to do it after pick-up, with recovery over the weekend. I did ask the parents to come on time to pick up and one of the parents to come half an hour earlier than usual (as her child stays later). That parent is giving me a very hard time. I feel very private about my health and don't want to discuss why she has to come early. At the beginning of the year, I told her that I would need her to pick up at regular time some days. I feel so bad because I don't want to fight with the mom. Any suggestions?