Quote Originally Posted by carrielind View Post
Okay so I have a 2 yr old dck who has been with me for four months. At the beginning he’d only nap for 45 mind, but clearly tired after waking. Well I talked to his mom about it and she says oh ya that’s what he does then we bring him to the living room and he falls back asleep on couch for another hour. So I have been doing that here for a bout a month or so. It’s fine because everyone else is napping, however it is really not ideal. I feel like when he goes through the sleep cycles he can’t fall back asleep on his own. Apparently at home she has been putting him to bed then when he wakes bringing him to her bed. So there we go that’s why he’s like this obviously. So now she is pregnant and wants to stop this , so she just keeps bringing him back to his bed at night, it’s been 4 days for her now and still fighting her at night, on Friday I tried keeping him in his bed and shushing him/staying beside him but it just ended up waking all of the other kids up, and he didn’t fall back asleep.Disastrous. Anyways, any help? Advice?
Truthfully, if your system of moving him to the couch and he sleeps another hour is working I would continue with that and let her get it sorted out on her end first, then switch to keeping him in his bed at your place. Let her get it sorted out on her end, she doesn't have multiple other children that are at risk of being woken.

If it is not working and you want it stopped now. Then you'll just have to ride it out. But old habits are hard to change...and this is a habit that has been in place at home and daycare so will be hard to change without protest.