Just a question...socail situations and DCK

[playfelt]

Back when we got babies into care at 4 months I was often invited to their first birthday and it was a great networking time since many of their friends they invited were having babies. Also it was nice to hear the grandparents talk about me as in all the nice things the parents had said about me. Now I don't usually get invited and not sure if I did that I would actually go since I would only know the family for less than a month. I have attended Christenings - again years ago and not now and a couple of first communions for children I had had in care many years that I had stayed in contact with the family.

[Spixie33]

We got asked once and I took a few days to think about it. I didn't want to get too personal and blur the lines between work and play.
In the end we did go because my own child and the daycare child were really good friends and playmates and I figured that we were asked because they had a genuine wish for the two children to get together.
It went well