As busy as it will be, at least you will be under the same roof as your baby even if you are occupied with other children, sounds like there will be plenty of loving arms to support the first while. I only wanted to suggest to start weeks or months prior to baby being born to fill your freezer with dinners that only need a fresh salad, rice, mashed potatoes, as an accompaniment. Hearty chilis, stews, soups, braised meats. Then just thaw in fridge day before. Best of luck