Okay ladies please help me with this one:

My DD is in JK and wants to invite 5 girls from her class plus 2 outside friends, I told her maximum 8 girls. I feel bad as that excludes 4 girls from her class. Is it wrong to exclude? Part of me says no as it's a fact of life that we are not going to get on with everyone. Another part of me says exclusion sucks.

I also feel that if she does invite all 12 girls is too outrageous a number for a 5the birthday.

What do I do