Re-posting a private message we received in order to get more advice to help this person:

"I feeling kind a lost...I love children but the competition is making me that maybe this isn't gonna work....all I wanted to do was provide a loving and caring home for children...but because my home is small no one thinks my house is good enough...the competition sent four families to my home to compare from mine to hers...I am very upset.......I really want to make this work...I am really good with children its the grown ups that I have issues with...I really hope you can help me"